The Handmaid’s Tale “Mary And Martha” Review: Emily Carries The Episode

Full spoilers for The Handmaid’s Tale Season 3 episode 2, “Mary And Martha.”

The Handmaid’s Tale “Mary And Martha” is a split episode in the most frustrating way: everything with Emily is beautiful, and almost everything with Trouble-Maker June is already a problem.

That is the tension. This episode contains some of the most emotionally precise material the show has given Emily in a long time. It understands silence, recovery, fear, choice, and the impossible awkwardness of trying to step back into a life that Gilead violently interrupted.

And then there is June.

June is now burying bodies, meeting bomb-making Marthas, joining resistance networks, and pushing the show further into the version of The Handmaid’s Tale that worries me most: June versus Gilead as a rebellion engine. That is not automatically bad. Mayday matters. Resistance matters. But the show becomes less interesting when June’s story gets bigger while her emotional framework gets thinner.

“Mary And Martha” works best when it remembers that this series is not strongest as a war story. It is strongest as a story about people trying to survive what Gilead has done to their bodies, families, choices, and sense of self.

For the full Season 3 arc, start with our The Handmaid’s Tale Season 3 recap, reviews, and ending explained hub.

What Happens In The Handmaid’s Tale “Mary And Martha”?

“Mary And Martha” follows two major tracks. In Canada, Emily arrives with Nichole and begins the overwhelming process of re-entering the world after Gilead. She is examined by doctors, processed by officials, and faced with the terrifying possibility of reconnecting with her wife and child.

Inside Gilead, June is living in Commander Lawrence’s house and trying to insert herself into the Martha network. That path leads her into a resistance operation involving a woman who makes bombs, a failed escape, and a dead Martha buried in Lawrence’s backyard.

The episode also brings Aunt Lydia back after Emily’s attack at the end of Season 2, keeps Luke and Moira in Canada as they react to Emily and Nichole’s arrival, and deepens the mystery around Commander Lawrence. Lawrence remains the most compelling part of June’s new world because he is helping her, testing her, and judging her all at once.

Emily Is The Best Part Of The Episode

Everything with Emily works.

That surprised me in the best way. I expected Emily’s escape with Nichole to feel almost like an epilogue, a way to honor a character the show had used so efficiently and brutally. Instead, “Mary And Martha” makes Emily’s arrival in Canada feel like the beginning of another kind of story.

Emily is safe, but safety does not make anything easy. She has to enter Canadian custody with someone else’s baby. She has to be examined by doctors. She has to process ordinary medical information, like being told she has high cholesterol, while still carrying the unthinkable trauma of Gilead in her body.

That high cholesterol moment is quietly stunning because it is so normal that it becomes surreal. Emily has survived mutilation, sexual slavery, the Colonies, murder, escape, and exile. Then a doctor tells her something mundane and human about her body, and the scene lets Alexis Bledel play the collision of disbelief, fear, irritation, shock, humor, and grief almost entirely on her face.

That is The Handmaid’s Tale at its best. No overexplaining. No speech telling us how Emily feels. Just an actor, a camera, and a moment that trusts the audience to understand what ordinary life feels like after horror.

Emily’s Phone Call Is A Real Choice

The heart of Emily’s story is her reluctance to call her wife.

On paper, that might sound simple. Emily escaped Gilead. Her wife and child are in Canada. Of course she should call. Of course she should reconnect. Of course the reunion should be the obvious next step.

But that is exactly why the episode is smart. It understands that the obvious thing is not always the easy thing. Emily is not choosing between good and bad. She is choosing between different kinds of fear.

What if her wife has moved on? What if her child does not remember her? What if the woman who escaped Gilead cannot fit back into the marriage that existed before it? What if the love is still there, but the shape of Emily’s life has been altered beyond recognition?

That is what makes the phone call powerful. The choice is not whether Emily loves her family. The choice is whether she can bear to re-enter their lives when she no longer knows who she is outside of survival.

The episode makes another strong formal choice by keeping much of that call private. We do not need to hear every word. The moment belongs to Emily and her wife before it belongs to us. That restraint is why the scene lands.

Luke And Moira Are Still Undercooked

The Canada material works beautifully with Emily, but Luke and Moira are more uneven.

Luke is in an awful position. He is caring for Nichole, a baby who is not biologically his, while his wife and his daughter remain inside Gilead. Nichole is also a living reminder of everything Gilead did to June. That is a brutal emotional situation, and I understand why he would struggle.

The problem is that the show still does not seem fully sure what to do with him. Instead of trusting that conflict to sit under the surface, “Mary And Martha” gives us Luke poking at Emily in a way that mostly seems designed to make him look bad. The scene may be emotionally plausible, but it is not especially graceful.

Moira has the opposite problem. She is present, compassionate, and grounded, but she still feels more like support infrastructure than an active character. She helps refugees. She guides Emily. She serves as a moral check on Luke. Those are useful functions, but they are not the same thing as an arc.

That is frustrating because Moira should matter more than this. She has survived Gilead too. She has rebuilt pieces of herself in Canada. She should not only exist to help other people process their stories.

Trouble-Maker June Is Already A Problem

Now we have to talk about June.

“Mary And Martha” goes all in on Trouble-Maker June. She is meeting Marthas, trying to help with a bomb maker, burying a body, navigating the resistance, and generally pushing herself into a fight that is much bigger than her.

I understand why the show wants this. June stayed in Gilead. She did not take the escape. That decision has to mean something. The show needs her to act, not just endure. But the execution already worries me because the resistance plot does not feel personal enough yet.

The Martha network should not automatically accept June. These women risked a lot to help get Nichole out of Gilead, and June responded to that risk by refusing to leave. From their point of view, June is not simply a brave rebel. She is a liability, a woman who draws attention, makes impulsive choices, and gets other people killed.


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That is the math the episode needs to confront more directly. Instead, June is quickly pulled into resistance business, and the story assumes her centrality before fully earning why these people would trust her.

For the broader resistance mythology, read our explainer: What Is Mayday In The Handmaid’s Tale?

The Problem With June Versus Gilead

My concern is not that June wants to fight Gilead. Of course she does. My concern is that the show becomes less specific when it treats rebellion as the default answer to every June problem.

The Handmaid’s Tale is not at its best when June is chasing bomb makers and stepping into anonymous rebellion plots with people we barely know. It is at its best when the conflict is personal, intimate, and morally uncomfortable. Emily deciding whether to call her wife is more compelling than June joining a vague resistance operation because Emily’s choice is rooted in character. It has texture. It has fear. It has emotional consequence.

June’s plot has tension, especially when investigators search Lawrence’s house, when blood on the wall threatens to expose what happened, and when Lawrence watches June bury the dead Martha. But those moments are interesting because of what surrounds June, not because June herself is especially compelling inside the rebellion track.

That is a warning sign. When the main character is no longer the most interesting part of the episode, the show has to recalibrate fast.

Commander Lawrence Is The Right Kind Of Unstable

Commander Lawrence remains the best part of June’s side of the story.

I still do not know where I stand with him, and that is exactly why he works. He helps June, but something about the help feels off. He dislikes liars. He understands Gilead’s machinery. He has an uneasy, painful dynamic with his wife. He can seem amused, irritated, cruel, strategic, and strangely protective in the same scene.

Watching Lawrence look down at June while she buries the Martha is one of the episode’s strongest images. Is he approving? Is he judging? Is he letting her learn the cost of her own choices? Is he already several moves ahead of her?

That ambiguity gives June’s story the personal framework it badly needs. Lawrence is not just another obvious villain. He is a compromised architect of the world June is trying to survive, and his presence makes every act of rebellion feel less clean.

Aunt Lydia Survives, But Should She?

Aunt Lydia lives, which is not surprising because Ann Dowd is too good to lose casually. Still, the episode raises a real question: should Lydia have survived the Season 2 finale?

From a story standpoint, maybe not. Emily’s attack on Lydia had enormous force because it felt like a rupture. Keeping Lydia alive risks softening that consequence unless the show knows exactly what it wants to do with her next.

The bigger question is whether we need Aunt Lydia humanized. My instinct is no, or at least not in the easy explanatory sense. Aunt Lydia is terrifying because she can be warm, cruel, maternal, punitive, sincere, and monstrous all at once. Explaining her too neatly could make her smaller.

If the show is going to dig into Lydia, it needs to avoid turning backstory into excuse. Explanation is useful only if it makes the horror sharper, not softer.

Why “Mary And Martha” Works

“Mary And Martha” works whenever it slows down and lets recovery feel strange.

Emily’s story is the obvious example. The episode understands that escape is not a clean ending. It is disorienting. It is quiet. It is awkward. It is full of choices that should be joyful but feel terrifying because Gilead has damaged the part of you that knows how to receive joy.

The episode also works whenever Commander Lawrence is onscreen because he brings uncertainty back into June’s world. After the Waterford house, Lawrence’s household feels like a different kind of trap, and that is useful. The show needed a new dynamic after the Season 2 finale, and Lawrence gives it one.

Why “Mary And Martha” Struggles

The episode struggles because June’s rebellion track feels too broad too quickly.

That is the thin red line here. On one side, the show can use Mayday, the Marthas, and Lawrence to make June’s decision to stay feel dangerous, specific, and emotionally costly. On the other side, it can turn June into a rebellion mascot inside a story that suddenly feels less personal.

“Mary And Martha” toes that line hard.

If the show keeps June grounded in Hannah, Lawrence, the Marthas’ distrust, and the cost of her choices, this Season 3 direction can work. But if the story becomes June making reckless choices inside a generic resistance plot, then the show risks becoming exactly the thing it should avoid: a war story that forgets why the personal horror mattered in the first place.

The Handmaid’s Tale Mary And Martha Review

“Mary And Martha” is a deeply uneven episode, but the highs are high enough to matter.

Emily’s Canada material is excellent. It is quiet, restrained, beautifully performed, and emotionally specific. Her phone call is the kind of scene that reminds me why The Handmaid’s Tale can still be one of the best-crafted shows on television when it trusts silence, image, and performance.

June’s material is much shakier. The Lawrence dynamic is promising, and the Martha network should be fascinating, but Trouble-Maker June already feels like the version of Season 3 that could flatten the show instead of deepening it.

So the episode leaves me split. Emily’s story is the best version of The Handmaid’s Tale. June’s story is the version I am worried Season 3 wants to become.

Mary & Blake certified: C+


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